Porn? What fallacy!

 

(James Deen and Asphyxia Noir for Sex and Sumbission.com)

This is not going to be a very intellectual post. I’m just going to try and explain my relationship with porn and how it affects my life.

I like this porn lark.

There is no reason or rhyme for it. I just like it. It’s not because I had a bad childhood or that I’m missing something in my life (apparently, according to one MSN commenter, everybody who watches porn is missing something in their lives).

My history with porn and erotica is a weird one.

Erotica, the soft core movies like Emmannuelle (I always forget how to spell it) and dirty stories in the form of fanfiction, have always been a part of my life.

From the moment I discovered that there was a world on the internet where you could write about shagging the guys from Lord of The Rings, I was hooked. That one site (I have no idea which one it is now) provided me with so much wank fodder (though I didn’t wank), I had print-outs of my favorite stories in a binder, which I took to school with me.

Of course, I was such a prude back then. I often skippped over words like “balls” and “penis” because, EEEEEEK! I still get the jiffies when I read the word “balls” but less so, seeing as I’ve used it myself in a few stories now.

I was ruined by fanfiction. Never wrote it myself, cos I can’t really get in to the head of an exsisting character. But, back then, it turned me on, I guess. That was before I knew about Mary Sues and such.

Soft core erotica was another prominent thing in my earlier years. A few channels used to air sexy movies late at night, and I caught my first one (Windows of The Heart, I think) when I was still in 6th grade.

I am quite fond of soft core movies, like the Emanuelle ones. I wish I had some good ones on dvd. That would bring back a lot of memories.

Now, on to porn.

Last year, during a laptop session, the idea of watching some porn popped into my head. After contemplating it for exactly five seconds, I typed in the adress of a site I knew (RedTube.com) and watched in awe.

Everthing’s gone potty since then. No, kidding, but I have incorporated porn into my life. I know what I need to do to get aroused now, and porn has been a good help in discovering what I like and loathe.

So, porn.

I don’t watch it because I’m a virgin, or because I had a bad childhood. None of that nonsense. I watch it because (be prepared for a shock) some of it genuinely arouses me.

Yes, women like porn. Be amazed and kinda scared.

Porn I <} (and encourage you ladies and gents to try out)

  • The “Chemistry” series by Tristan Taormino. I’ve only seen part 3, but it is AWESOME.
  • This video: http://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=789612578
  • Anything with James Deen in it
  • Feeling It by Petra Joy, because it is artsy and pretty
  • Pirates and Pirates 2: Stagnetti’s Revenge
  • Dear Abby, a romantic comedy porno (which I am dying to see)
  • The Crashpad series (queer porn at its best, apparently)
  • The “Rough Sex” series, also by Tristan Taormino
  • Lost and Found, another rom-com porn

If you have anything to add or recommend, please don’t hesitate to comment! I love discovering new movies.

 

 

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6 Comments

  1. Oh, believe me, I know a woman can be aroused by porn 😉

    I also started reading erotic that was fan fiction. I’ve even written some. Some of the stuff I read made me take a second look at kink and BDSM, which had previously scared me silly… and the rest is history as they say.

    ~Kazi

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    • More women should come out for their love of porn, so thank you for doing just that, Kazi!

      I can understand that certain stuff makes you look at things like kink in a different way. I had that with sex in general.

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  2. Personally, I think that people who don’t watch porn have something missing from their lives… Porn! :o)

    I’m not familiar with much of what you mention (apart from the Emmanuelle films), as I’m more of a fan of the old school 70s and 80s films – films with plots, cinematic editing and pubic hair.

    Some of my recommendations :

    Hardcore : Hot Rackets, Taboo I & 2, Nothing to Hide, 3 AM, The Opening of Misty Beethoven, Barbara Broadcast, The Private Afternoons of Pamela Mann, Naked Came the Stranger, Wet Rainbow, The Devil in Miss Jones, Surrender in Paradise, Garage Girls, Mary! Mary!

    Softcore : Felicity, Immoral Tales, Behind Convent Walls. And if you like corny softcore films full of ugly men and gorgeous women : Sassy Sue, The Pigkeeper’s Daughter, Midnight Plowboy, Country Cuzzins, etc. (Hillybilly comedies all made by the same guy.)

    Sexy Art movies : Room in Rome, Sex and Lucia, The Dreamers, The Decameron, The Canterbury Tales, The Arabian Nights, Short Bus, In the Realm of the Senses.

    Enjoy!

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    • Touché, my Aussie friend… 😀

      Thanks for all your recommendations!

      Misty Beethoven and The Devil in Miss Jones are on my “to watch” list, but I have no idea where to get them…

      Hillbilly porn? I think I’ll skip, thanks…

      I have been dying to see Short Bus!

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  3. “Playtime” starring Peter North and Ariah. Stick around for the female orgasms halfway through.

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