Are You Afraid?

I have a confession to make.

A horrid one.

I am a wanton virgin sex blogger goddess… who’s scared stiff of sex.

That’s right, come on, have at me! I’m scared of the squelchy!


(pictured: The Squelchy (c))


In all seriousness, it’s true. I’m slightly terrified of doing the deed. I have these moments where I just want to cry out I WANT SEX NOW and where I crave to just rub my pussy up against someone’s genitals (I have an obsession with frotting, what of it?). And there are moments when the thought just freezes me stiff.

The thought of being naked is quite terrifying. I mean, I can do it alone. Maybe on cam. But I don’t know how I will react with another naked person in the room.

I don’t know how I will react when I first touch another person. When I first slip my fingers inside another girl or wrap my hands around a cock.

And it’s fucking scary.

I try to end my posts on an optimistic note, but the truth is that I can’t. I’m genuinely scared of it all.

Even now that I’ve seen both a cock and a cunt up close.


Leave a comment


  1. I remember being scared, too, even though I had been very naked a lot with my boyfriend. However, there is something to be said for “it’s just sex”. I think that can help take away some of the overwhelming feelings. Just about everyone does it. And it doesn’t have to be perfect, and it doesn’t even have to be the perfect person. Of course, I can say all this with it 2 decades in the rearview mirror.

  2. Your fears are probably common. I remember being a bit intimidated by the thought of sex before I’d had any, although to be fair that was in the days before images and video of sex were available at the touch of a button. But don’t apologize or excuse your fears. In time as you become more comfortable with yourself – and you are making great strides lately – your fears will be less debilitating.

    Incidentally, frotting is pretty hot. Friction makes me happy. But not too much; I’m not a fan of carpet burn.


    • I hope so. It’s still a daunting thought, although I’ve come quite far with it.

      And yeah, fuck, frotting is hot! My favorite porn video is a tribbing video, actually.


  3. P.S. I want to be in that picture.

  4. It’s perfectly fine to be nervous at first. It’s impossible not to feel nervous at first. I was worried about all sorts of bad things happening when it first occured. But you know what, once you really get into it and start to enjoy it, all of that anxiety evaporates. Just take your time, and when it happens it’ll be awesome 🙂

  5. What are you really afraid of may I ask? Is it the act itself, the moment of penetration, or the getting naked and revealing yourself to another’s eyes or maybe that you will be rejected or a disappointment. I think all of those are normal fear but I think when you find the right person to share this with you those fears will actually vanish for you and so maybe the biggest fear is really….who?


  6. I still have times of fear. I make myself so vulnerable, and the potential for rejection is always with me, the more open I make myself. But – i’ve found it to be worth it for the amazing rewards! I have, very rarely, been hurt. But not often. And when it’s happened, I have loved myself enough to put myself back together, open myself back up, and go back out there, vulnerable again.



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