Who the devil are you?

Jillian Boyd. I run the house here. Welcome.

Why do you write this blog?

  • Because sex and human sexuality interests me, and I write to gain better understanding of my own sexuality.
  • Because it’s more of an education in sex and relationships than actual sex-ed in school ever was.
  • Because I bloody love writing about sex.
  • Because it feels like a natural topic for me to be writing about.
  • Because having sex is fun.
  • Because of catharsis.
  • Because I believe that sex is a beautiful, messy and glorious thing and should not be shamed or frowned upon by people.

More about me:

  • I’m 23.
  • Female.
  • Bi-queerious.
  • Vanilla, with sprinkles.
  • Very much in love and dating this bloke.
  • Living in London.

What else do I do?

  • Write and edit erotic romance/erotic fiction short stories for publication.
  • Freelance as a website writer.
  • Make and craft stuff.
  • Read voraciously.
  • Bake.


Apart from writing this blog, which I’ve been doing for nearly three years, I also write erotic fiction. I’ve been published by the likes of House of Erotica, Constable and Robinson and am soon to be published by Cleis Press (OW MAH GLOB *flaps hands in excitement*).

I’m also editing my first anthology in the new year (*flaps hands even harder in more excitement*). You can find that call for submissions here.

I also freelance as a writer, mainly on Dork Adore, where I cover things from films and TV to gadgets and gizmos. I’ve written for several other websites, a list of which you can find here (currently being updated, so no link yet! Sorry!)

Oh, and just in case you’re wondering, here’s a short list of my favourite things (blissfully free of raindrops and roses).

Favourite film: Shadow of a Doubt by Alfred Hitchcock

Favourite TV show: Hannibal (dem cheekbones, tho)

Favourite song: Euphoria by Loreen (she says without any trace of shame. What of it?)

Favourite book: How To Make Love Like a Porn Star: A Cautionary Tale – Jenna Jameson with Neil Strauss.

Favourite sex toy: LELO Ella (How I Love You So)

Favourite sexual position: fucking missionary, dude. It’s where it’s at.

Favourite erotic story: I’ve got plenty, but Löyly by Angela Caperton is one of my all-time favourites.

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  1. dererzahlernc

     /  September 14, 2011

    Love the freckles! 😉

  2. I like your exciting blog for its personal touch, excellent language and hot topics.

  3. I have nominated you for the Versatile Blogger Award. Check out my site to get more info 🙂

  4. Lovely! Looking forward to exploring your mind

  5. Hello, you have a great homepage!
    I’ll be reading some of your texts and you may look at my book and get a sample if you wish!
    /Christina, SWEDEN

  6. H.H.

     /  January 22, 2012

    Hey Jilly,

    I think you might enjoy our blog: mysexlifewithlola.com

    Glad to have found yours.


  7. Foster Drake

     /  February 5, 2012

    I love the concept behind your blog. I am a newcomer here looking for inspiration, and I believe I have found it here. Beautiful work. I will be following and looking forward to your updates, my dear

  8. Hi – just found your blog via Remittance Girl, and I will be hanging around a while! Greetings from a proud fellow wearer of the Jane’s Guide badge!

    • Hello! Welcome, I’d say! I’m a big fan of RG, so I’m happy that you know her too. And yes, I wear my badge with pride!

  9. Hey gurrrrl, I awarded you something on my blog! Come visit and see.


  10. I nominated you for a Versatile Blogger Award! Hope you like it 😀

  11. I love your blogs, your photos are very beautiful. I’ll be back… I also have a second blog on old pictures.
    SENSUALITE | La beauté à l’état pure

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